One of the trickiest things about divorce is learning how to communicate with your ex. It’s easy to slip into old habits, talk too much, and over-complicate things. Shorter is sweeter my friends—unnecessary interactions stem from emotions caused by your split. Entertaining them only drags out the recovery process. Below are the perpetrators who commit these heinous communication crimes, and, in turn, add undue stress and heartache to their lives. We’ve provided some suggestions (and okay, Greensboro, they might not be exactly ten words) to make conversation with the one you used to love healthy and productive. Still…if you see yourself in any of these scenarios, you may need to seek treatment. Continue reading →
Articles Posted in Divorce Recovery
Spring-Cleaning for Life! The Power of Positivity
By Amy Setzer, Legal Assistant, Woodruff Family Law GroupIt’s springtime in the Triad! The season of new blossoms, warming weather and parting clouds has inspired me to talk to you about how important staying positive really is. Whether you’re writing your separation agreement or mediating custody, anything that irreparably changes your personal life is mentally and emotionally taxing. It’s hard to keep that chin up when there’s no light at the end of the tunnel. Continue reading →
Change is a four letter word!
By Tina Ray, Legal Assistant, Woodruff Family Law GroupChange is a four-letter word. Actually, we all know it’s six letters, but to some, it sometimes has the connotation as some of the more well-known four letter words that some of us use daily. One of the definitions from www.dictionary.com is: “to make a material difference so that the thing is distinctly different from what it was.” All families go through change, both good and bad. How one copes with that four-letter word can mean the difference between surviving, or barely hanging on. You are responsible for how your children learn to handle change. You set the example. Make the difference. Your children learn by example, so make that learning experience positive. Continue reading →
Make This Valentine’s Day “More Me, Less You!”
By Amy Setzer, Legal Assistant, Woodruff Family Law GroupSpending Valentine’s Day as a new member of the Triad Singles Guild could be more traumatic than your divorce–if you let it. Friends plan gushy evenings at Christopher B’s. Flowers appear on desks at work. The children’s tiny, perforated Minion cards taunt you from their WalMart bag. To top it all off, Hallmark has once again left no Walgreens untouched—their lovey-dovey hearts and candy are delicate lace reminders of how you failed at love. The pressure to be part of a pair is everywhere. Do not give in! Continue reading →
Treat Yourself This Valentine’s Day
By Diana Westrick, Legal Assistant, Woodruff Family Law GroupListen up, Greensboro! Single does not have to equal lonely. In fact, it is the time that we update our definitions and expectations to what being single truly signifies: independence, opportunity, and a bounty of love available to share. While the upcoming “love holiday” can often remind us of what past relationships are missing, or what current relationships are lacking, Valentine’s Day can also provide an opportunity to acknowledge the value of those relations often overlooked; connections that can hold much more value than those of the romantic-sort.
Read on for a listing of Valentine’s events to share with your other, significant others. Continue reading →
It’s a New Year, Greensboro! Resolutions: The ABC’s of Goal Setting – Part 4 of 4
By Amy Setzer, Legal Assistant, Woodruff Family Law GroupIf you’re on our blog, chances are you’re in one of the three stages of divorce: contemplating, in the process of, or finalized. Regardless, life probably feels like a never-ending rollercoaster. At a time when everything is spinning out of control, it’s natural to wonder how the heck you got to this awful place. As the adventure of 2016 commences, remember this: life is what you make of it, and it doesn’t have to suck. Continue reading →
It’s a New Year, Greensboro! Resolutions: The ABC’s of Goal Setting – Part 3 of 4
By Amy Setzer, Legal Assistant, Woodruff Family Law GroupB is for BALANCE AND MODERATION
“Balance is not something you find; it’s something you create.” –Jane Kingsford
Divorce can have a funny way of consuming you, and it’s easy to get caught up in the New Year self-improvement frenzy. Avoid heaping resolutions to your already hefty “to-do” pile–you may crash and burn. Instead, bring some harmony to your life by being choosy. Continue reading →
North Carolina Spying and the GPS: Where is your ex’s car headed?
By Carolyn J. Woodruff, JD, CPA, CVAThere are lots of times many Piedmont Triad and other North Carolinians wish that they could put a GPS tracking device on an ex’s car. Maybe you want to know who the “other woman” or “other man” is. Maybe you want to see what the father or mother of your child is doing. Maybe you want to see if your ex is going to strip clubs. Whatever your reason or mindset, North Carolina has recently enacted new legislation you need to know, and you need to know now!!! Continue reading →
It’s a New Year, Greensboro! Resolutions: The ABC’s of Goal Setting – Part 2 of 4
By Amy Setzer, Legal Assistant, Woodruff Family Law GroupDid you know that of the 45% of Americans who make New Year’s resolutions, 49% have limited success while 24% never succeed at all? That’s bad news if you’re trying to adjust to divorce. A life change of this magnitude is grueling; it feels like there’s no light at the end of the tunnel. Resolutions would be just another thing to fail at, right?
Wrong. When done correctly, setting some objectives for 2016 can help you race to recovery. In the upcoming posts, you’ll find some tips that will strengthen your resolve to be a healthier, happier you in 2016. Continue reading →
It’s A New Year, Greensboro! Resolutions: A Survival Guide for the Newly Single – Part 1 of 4
By Amy Setzer, Legal Assistant, Woodruff Family Law GroupCherishing family and friends and celebrating what really matters can be hard to do when Divorce is a thing in your life. Right now, you may feel broken and bitter while everyone else seems to be hopping around with some joyous version of Seasonal Affective Disorder. I know how you feel. Continue reading →
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