We all know divorce can be expensive. And with kids involved, the legal costs can add up even more rapidly because of custody and child support disputes. A recent North Carolina case, Stewart v. Brickman, helps explain when a court might order one parent to help pay for the other parent’s legal bills. Continue reading →
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Why the N.C. Court of Appeals Vacated a 2023 Custody Order
In this post, we will discuss the implications of the Aguilar v. Mayen case and why the North Carolina Court of Appeals has vacated a custody order. If you are a family lawyer, judge, or a parent in North Carolina, you’ll find this case important, especially from the perspective of how custody orders need to be written to stand. Continue reading →
Celebrating Our Furry Family Members on Dec 11th
The holidays are a season of giving. We shop for our children, cook up incredible feasts to share with loved ones, decorate our homes to spread joy, and often make end-of-year contributions to our favorite charities. But in the hustle and bustle that comes with December, it’s easy to overlook some of the most vulnerable members of our North Carolina community: the animals in our local shelters. Continue reading →
Deviation from the Indian Child Welfare Act in Foster Placements
The Indian Child Welfare Act (ICWA) was enacted to protect the best interests of Native American children and promote the stability of Native families and tribes. It requires that courts make efforts to keep families intact and prioritize putting children in out-of-home placements that are within the child’s family or community. Further, the child’s tribal nation and family have a right to participate in decisions regarding foster placements. Continue reading →
Can Children Have a Say in Custody and Visitation Terms in North Carolina?
There are numerous factors courts must consider when making custody and visitation determinations, but the preeminent factor is the best interest of the child. In some cases, courts may weigh the child’s preference as part of their overall considerations, but this is handled on a case-by-case basis. The child’s age, maturity, and ability to understand the implications of such a decision may impact a court’s willingness to consider the child’s preferences. Continue reading →
Unfounded Abuse Allegations May Impact Child Custody in North Carolina
Anyone who suspects that a child is being abused or neglected can make a report to the Department of Social Services or Child Protective Services in North Carolina. This system is intended to protect children and ensure they have safe caregivers and homes. If a report is determined to be unfounded, it means that an investigation found no evidence of the reported neglect or abuse. Continue reading →
I’m Movin’ Out
By Paul K Mengert, II, JD
Moving out is not a good first step to divorce.
Moving out can seem like the obvious first step to ending an unhealthy relationship. But moving out has many potential repercussions for married individuals in North Carolina, making it an impulsive and bad decision. Continue reading →
Summer Vacation Ideas for Divorced Parents in the Triangle
Summer is the best time of year; schools are out, you get to spend time with your kids, and the weather is great! However, the summer months can be tricky for divorced parents since there are often custody agreements to consider. The good news is that there are tons of fun activities in the Triangle that make it easy to create unforgettable memories with your kids. If you’re looking for summer vacation ideas you and your little ones are sure to love, this article’s for you! Continue reading →
Using a QDRO to Pay Child Support Arrears After Participant’s Death
Qualified Domestic Relations Orders (QDROs) are used to divide certain retirement plans and award a portion of the funds to an alternate payee. QDROs are typically used as part of the distribution of assets and property in a divorce, and the alternate payee is typically a spouse or former spouse. However, there are other scenarios in which a QDRO may be used to give someone rights to a retirement plan as an alternate payee. Continue reading →
Who Gets Fido? Navigating Pet Custody During a Divorce
May is National Pet Month, when we celebrate the special role pets play in our families and in our hearts. Continue reading →
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