Valentine’s Day is fast approaching, and with it you simply can’t escape the messages of love that are everywhere. While many find this holiday to be fun and exciting, for those who are newly single, it can be hurtful and upsetting. While we can’t take away the pain of a breakup, we can offer practical tips to brighten up your Valentine’s Day. You don’t have to have a partner to enjoy the holiday; by focusing on yourself, it can be the best one yet.
Tip 1 – Focus on Self-Care
Oftentimes, in relationships, you find that you’ve set your own needs aside to focus solely on your partner. When that relationship ends, you can feel lost and unsure of who you are on your own. This Valentine’s Day, take the time to focus on self-care and fall in love with yourself all over again. Buy yourself a beautiful bouquet of flowers, book a spa treatment, or take a relaxing bubble bath. If you’re feeling brave (and why shouldn’t you?), take yourself out to eat at your favorite restaurant. Take the day to do whatever makes you happy because you deserve it.
Tip 2 – Connect with Friends and Family
Another fun way to spend Valentine’s Day is with your friends and family. Plan a special night out or a cozy night in where you play games, watch movies, and eat tasty food. Your friendships are often stronger and last longer than romantic relationships, so it’s a great time to celebrate the love you have for the people who are always by your side.
Tip 3 – Try a New Activity
Have you been eyeing a fun class, like a paint-and-sip or pottery? What better time than Valentine’s Day to take the plunge and try something new? You could also go to a museum or spend the day exploring your city. If you prefer connecting with nature, you could hike in a local preserve or visit the beach or lake. Stepping out of your comfort zone can feel a little scary, but you’re sure to create great memories, and you’ll be so proud of yourself once you’re done.
Tip 4 – Go Screenfree
Have you ever noticed how your mood shifts after spending too much time on social media? Why not take this Valentine’s Day to log off and give yourself a break from being online? Seeing others’ posts about their holiday outings can heighten feelings of loneliness and create unrealistic expectations. Being single for Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be a bad thing. By tuning out the noise, you can focus on yourself and what fills you with joy.
Being newly single can be challenging, but with these tips you can still enjoy Valentine’s Day this year. Woodruff Family Law Group is proud to provide creative family law solutions in a complex world. Our expert team develops creative solutions tailored to your needs. When quality representation matters, turn to North Carolina’s most trusted family law and divorce attorneys—Woodruff Family Law Group.